In today’s expert episode, I’m interviewing Anna Runkle, better known as the “Crappy Childhood Fairy” on YouTube, whose new book, <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Connectability-Hidden-Isolate-People-Belong/dp/1401979211" rel="nofollow">Connectability</a>, just launched. We talk all about what it really means to be dysregulated, how childhood trauma—not just the “big T” trauma—can play out in our adult relationships, and why so many of us find ourselves self-sabotaging or struggling to connect. Anna dives into why neglect, not being seen or cared for as a child, can have lasting neurological effects, and she shares practical steps to start re-regulating your nervous system and breaking out of old relational patterns. We also dig into why we might be drawn to emotionally unavailable people, the hidden ways we isolate ourselves, and why building multiple kinds of connection—not just romantic—is so important for healing after heartbreak. Anna offers relatable stories, super tangible advice, and hope for anyone navigating relationship wounds or looking to build a more connected, supported life.To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: <a href="https://breakupbestie.typeform.com/to/x0WglwDO" rel="nofollow">https://breakupbestie.typeform.com/to/x0WglwDO</a>To get my course bundle Heal Your Break Up, go to <a href="https://www.breakupbestie.com/heal-your-break-up-course%C2%A0" rel="nofollow">https://www.breakupbestie.com/heal-your-break-up-course </a>and use the code PODCAST for $25 off!To learn about all of my courses: <a href="https://www.breakupbestie.com/courses" rel="nofollow">https://www.breakupbestie.com/courses</a>To join Healing Hearts Club for FREE: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/1021288124899873" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/groups/1021288124899873</a>Get a copy of <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Breakup-Workbook-Exercises-Advice-Heartbreak/dp/1507219172/?_encoding=UTF8&content-id=amzn1.sym.8cf3b8ef-6a74-45dc-9f0d-6409eb523603&pd_rd_r=d5a76bf7-67f6-423f-aaca-66fc91e80309&pd_rd_w=O2bzl&pd_rd_wg=nyurA&pf_rd_p=8cf3b8ef-6a74-45dc-9f0d-6409eb523603&pf_rd_r=4X96WHRP6KFWB3E3H47X&ref_=pd_gw_ci_mcx_mi" rel="nofollow">The Breakup Workbook</a> here! Our Sponsors: * Check out BetterHelp: https://betterhelp.com/HEARTBREAK Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

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